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		<title>7-year-old donates to animal shelter &#8211; Chatham Star Tribune: News</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 18:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />DRY FORK &#8211; Seven-year-old Addison Stanfield &#112;&#117;&#116; &#097; strangerequest &#111;&#110; &#104;&#101;&#114; birthday invitations. No presents, no toys, just dog and cat food. Stanfield, &#097; first-grader &#097;&#116; Twin Springs Elementary School, askedfriends and family &#116;&#111; bring pet food &#116;&#111; donate &#116;&#111; Danville HumaneSociety. &#8220;I &#097;&#115;&#107;&#101;&#100; them &#116;&#111; bring dog and cat food,&#8221; Stanfield &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;I wantedthem [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/7-year-old-donates-to-animal-shelter-chatham-star-tribune-news">7-year-old donates to animal shelter &#8211; Chatham Star Tribune: News</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p>DRY FORK &#8211; Seven-year-old Addison Stanfield &#112;&#117;&#116; &#097; strangerequest &#111;&#110; &#104;&#101;&#114; birthday invitations.</p>
<p>No presents, no toys, just dog and cat food.</p>
<p>Stanfield, &#097; first-grader &#097;&#116; Twin Springs Elementary School, askedfriends and family &#116;&#111; bring pet food &#116;&#111; donate &#116;&#111; Danville HumaneSociety.</p>
<p>&#8220;I &#097;&#115;&#107;&#101;&#100; them &#116;&#111; bring dog and cat food,&#8221; Stanfield &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;I wantedthem &#116;&#111; &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; food and things &#116;&#111; eat.&#8221;</p>
<p>Stanfield and &#104;&#101;&#114; mom, India, dropped off 15 bags &#111;&#102; food and &#097; bagof kitty litter &#097;&#116; the humane society &#108;&#097;&#115;&#116; week.</p>
<p>&#8220;To &#109;&#101;, she&#8217;s an amazing child,&#8221; &#104;&#101;&#114; proud mom &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;What anunselfish act for &#104;&#101;&#114; &#116;&#111; give up all &#104;&#101;&#114; presents &#116;&#111; help someoneelse. I thought &#105;&#116; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097; very thoughtful and kind gesture.&#8221;</p>
<p>To read more &#111;&#102; this and &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; stories, pick up &#097; copy &#111;&#102; thisweek&#8217;s Star-Tribune &#111;&#110; newsstands &#111;&#114; subscribe online &#111;&#114; by calling432-2791. &#097; year&#8217;s subscription, &#119;&#104;&#105;&#099;&#104; &#105;&#115; just $27 in Danville andPittsylvania County, also &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101;&#115; you free access &#116;&#111; theStar-Tribune&#8217;s e-edition, an online version &#111;&#102; the entirenewspaper.</p>
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		<title>Businessperson Profile: Lori Burton, of Serendipity in Hudson</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 18:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />Name: Lori Burton Age: 43 Years in business: 6 Hometown: Marlborough Family: Husband, &#109;&#097;&#114;&#107;; daughter, Amelia, 12 Hobbies: Jewelry-making, travel, movies, dogs (we &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; 3) Name of business: Serendipity Address of business: 63B Main St., Hudson Phone number of business: 978-562-7756 Website: serendipityinhudson.com In three sentences, &#116;&#101;&#108;&#108; &#117;&#115; &#104;&#111;&#119; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#101;&#110;&#100;&#101;&#100; up in &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; line [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/businessperson-profile-lori-burton-of-serendipity-in-hudson">Businessperson Profile: Lori Burton, of Serendipity in Hudson</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p><strong>Name</strong>: Lori Burton</p>
<p><strong>Age</strong>: 43</p>
<p><strong>Years in business</strong>: 6</p>
<p><strong>Hometown</strong>: Marlborough</p>
<p><strong>Family</strong>: Husband, &#109;&#097;&#114;&#107;; daughter, Amelia, 12</p>
<p><strong>Hobbies</strong>: Jewelry-making, travel, movies, dogs (we &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; 3)</p>
<p><strong>Name of business</strong>: Serendipity</p>
<p><strong>Address of business</strong>: 63B Main St., Hudson</p>
<p><strong>Phone number of business</strong>: 978-562-7756</p>
<p><strong>Website</strong>: serendipityinhudson.com</p>
<p><strong>In three sentences, &#116;&#101;&#108;&#108; &#117;&#115; &#104;&#111;&#119; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#101;&#110;&#100;&#101;&#100; up in &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; line of work</strong></p>
<p> After teaching school for 15 years, I knew &#109;&#121; next career adventure would require that I work for myself. With an art-based background &#097;&#110;&#100; strength for sales, opening &#109;&#121; own gallery shop made way too much sense not &#116;&#111; attempt. I &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101; selling locally produced, handmade art!</p>
<p><strong>What &#097;&#114;&#101; two memories from &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; career that stick with &#121;&#111;&#117; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116;?</strong></p>
<p> I opened &#109;&#121; shop &#111;&#110; April 1 (April Fool&#8217;s Day), 2005, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#109;&#121; parents had absolutely &#110;&#111; &#105;&#100;&#101;&#097;. It was by &#102;&#097;&#114; a terrific surprise for them. A &#115;&#101;&#099;&#111;&#110;&#100; wonderful memory was when Serendipity was featured &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#115;&#104;&#111;&#119; &#8220;Chronicle&#8221; in 2008 &#8211; &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; an honor!</p>
<p><strong>What &#100;&#111; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#108;&#101;&#097;&#115;&#116; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; about &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; work?</strong></p>
<p> &#116;&#104;&#101; things about &#109;&#121; work that I enjoy &#116;&#104;&#101; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; &#097;&#114;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; many satisfied &#097;&#110;&#100; delighted customers that I &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; met over &#116;&#104;&#101; years. It is a &#116;&#114;&#117;&#108;&#121; wonderful feeling &#116;&#111; know that &#121;&#111;&#117; &#097;&#114;&#101; providing awesome customer service &#097;&#110;&#100; that &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; products &#097;&#114;&#101; all made by hand, in &#116;&#104;&#101; U.S., with &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101;. I really don&#8217;t &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; a &#8220;least&#8221; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; about &#109;&#121; work.</p>
<p><strong>What makes &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; business unusual?</strong></p>
<p> &#111;&#117;&#114; business is unusual &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; of &#116;&#104;&#101; many services &#119;&#101; offer in addition &#116;&#111; selling handmade gifts. &#119;&#101; offer jewelry-making workshops, beading birthday parties for children, ladies nights out, summer camp, custom jewelry design &#097;&#110;&#100; repair services as well as fabulous art.</p>
<p><strong>What advice &#100;&#111; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; for &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#111;&#110;&#101; who wants &#116;&#111; open a business?</strong></p>
<p> &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101; &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#100;&#111; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#098;&#101; passionate about it; &#098;&#101; willing &#116;&#111; work extremely hard &#097;&#110;&#100; appreciate &#116;&#104;&#101; support &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; friends &#097;&#110;&#100; family &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; provide; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#100;&#111; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; financial homework &#097;&#110;&#100; &#100;&#111; not &#098;&#101; undercapitalized.</p>
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		<title>A New Type of Gift Card Helps Local Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 18:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />Font Size: A gift card program &#098;&#121; the Downtown Development Association is giving Downtown Staunton’s business quite the boost. The cards &#097;&#114;&#101; easy &#116;&#111; use &#098;&#111;&#116;&#104; &#102;&#111;&#114; &#098;&#111;&#116;&#104; shoppers &#097;&#110;&#100; sellers. The program launched &#105;&#110; 2007, &#097;&#110;&#100; anyone &#099;&#097;&#110; &#098;&#117;&#121; a card. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; come &#105;&#110; &#116;&#101;&#110;, &#116;&#119;&#101;&#110;&#116;&#121;, &#097;&#110;&#100; fifty dollar increments. You &#099;&#097;&#110; use these [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/a-new-type-of-gift-card-helps-local-business">A New Type of Gift Card Helps Local Business</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p>A gift card program &#098;&#121; the Downtown Development Association is giving Downtown Staunton’s business quite the boost. The cards &#097;&#114;&#101; easy &#116;&#111; use &#098;&#111;&#116;&#104; &#102;&#111;&#114; &#098;&#111;&#116;&#104; shoppers &#097;&#110;&#100; sellers.</p>
<p>The program launched &#105;&#110; 2007, &#097;&#110;&#100; anyone &#099;&#097;&#110; &#098;&#117;&#121; a card. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; come &#105;&#110; &#116;&#101;&#110;, &#116;&#119;&#101;&#110;&#116;&#121;, &#097;&#110;&#100; fifty dollar increments. You &#099;&#097;&#110; use these cards at more than eighty locally-owned stores downtown.</p>
<p>Local businesses &#115;&#097;&#121; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; these gift cards have really improved their sales.</p>
<p>One toy store owner who sells &#097;&#110;&#100; redeems these gift cards &#105;&#110; her downtown store, &#115;&#097;&#121;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#097;&#114;&#101; gaining popularity &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; &#111;&#102; a push &#116;&#111; &#098;&#117;&#121; local.</p>
<p>“People &#097;&#114;&#101; continuing &#116;&#111; &#098;&#117;&#121; locally. They’re understanding &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; there’s &#118;&#097;&#108;&#117;&#101; &#105;&#110; buying &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; local, independently-owned businesses,” said owner Erin Blanton.</p>
<p>Last year, there &#119;&#097;&#115; more than a 40% increase &#105;&#110; people who participated &#105;&#110; the program.</p>
<p>The money &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; this program &#103;&#111;&#101;&#115; straight &#116;&#111; the stores &#097;&#110;&#100; reinvests itself downtown. Staunton Downtown Director Julie Markowitz &#115;&#097;&#121;&#115; this &#099;&#097;&#110; &#111;&#110;&#108;&#121; help.</p>
<p>“You’ve &#103;&#111;&#116; &#116;&#111; really support your neighbors. These &#097;&#114;&#101; people you know, they’re your neighbors, they’re your family, they’re people your children &#103;&#111; &#116;&#111; school &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104;. There’s a human factor there that’s really &#105;&#109;&#112;&#111;&#114;&#116;&#097;&#110;&#116;, too,” said Markowitz.</p>
<p>The Staunton Downtown Development Association sold $50,000 worth &#111;&#102; the card &#116;&#111; help local businesses &#105;&#110; 2011. &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; hope &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; means there &#097;&#114;&#101; &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; times ahead economically &#105;&#110; 2012.</p>
<p>The cards &#097;&#114;&#101; sold at &#102;&#105;&#118;&#101; local businesses, &#097;&#110;&#100; the &#112;&#097;&#115;&#116; couple years have &#098;&#101;&#101;&#110; the strongest.</p>
<p>“It’s a really positive thing &#102;&#111;&#114; everyone &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; &#105;&#116; has &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; ripple effect &#105;&#110; the community. &#105;&#116; strengthens the entire economy,” said Markowitz.</p>
<p>For business owners &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; Blanton, the gift cards have &#104;&#101;&#108;&#112;&#101;&#100; &#111;&#117;&#116; their stores.</p>
<p>“The money that’s the person’s, &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; spend the gift card, is staying right &#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; &#105;&#110; the local economy, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; means a lot &#116;&#111; &#109;&#101;: &#101;&#115;&#112;&#101;&#099;&#105;&#097;&#108;&#108;&#121; &#097;&#115; &#097;&#110; independent business owner,” said Blanton.</p>
<p>And she plans &#111;&#110; using the system &#116;&#111; help her business &#097;&#115; long &#097;&#115; it’s around.</p>
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		<title>Politi: Jets&#8217; Curtis Martin has shown greatness beyond football, including forgiving his father</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />What would you do if &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; biological father deserted &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; family? What would you do if &#104;&#101; left you and &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; mother behind when you &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; just a toddler, forcing her &#116;&#111; work &#116;&#119;&#111; jobs &#116;&#111; support you &#119;&#104;&#105;&#108;&#101; &#104;&#101; wasted his life &#111;&#110; drugs and alcohol? This is what Curtis Martin &#100;&#105;&#100;: &#104;&#101; showed [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/politi-jets-curtis-martin-has-shown-greatness-beyond-football-including-forgiving-his-father">Politi: Jets&#8217; Curtis Martin has shown greatness beyond football, including forgiving his father</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p>What would you do if &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; biological father deserted &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; family? </p>
<p>What would you do if &#104;&#101; left you and &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; mother behind when you &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; just a toddler, forcing her &#116;&#111; work &#116;&#119;&#111; jobs &#116;&#111; support you &#119;&#104;&#105;&#108;&#101; &#104;&#101; wasted his life &#111;&#110; drugs and alcohol? </p>
<p>This is what Curtis Martin &#100;&#105;&#100;: &#104;&#101; showed up unannounced &#097;&#116; his dad&#8217;s apartment &#111;&#110; Father&#8217;s Day in 1998, insisted &#104;&#101; wear a blindfold, and led him outside &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; backseat &#111;&#102; a waiting car. </p>
<p>Martin drove him &#116;&#111; a condominium complex, led him up a short flight &#111;&#102; stairs, and brought him &#105;&#110;&#115;&#105;&#100;&#101; &#111;&#110;&#101; &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; units. &#116;&#104;&#101; father could only smell &#116;&#104;&#101; scent &#111;&#102; freshly cleaned carpets as &#104;&#101; waited &#102;&#111;&#114; further instructions. </p>
<p>&#8220;&#116;&#097;&#107;&#101; off &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; blindfold,&#8221; Martin &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. </p>
<p>The father &#100;&#105;&#100; as &#104;&#101; was told. </p>
<p>&#8220;Welcome home, Dad,&#8221; &#116;&#104;&#101; son &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;.</p>
<p>The father looked around and &#115;&#097;&#119; &#097;&#110; ivory-colored sofa, a new television and decorations &#111;&#110; all &#116;&#104;&#101; walls. &#116;&#104;&#101; two-bedroom condo, completely furnished, was a gift &#8212; all &#116;&#104;&#101; father &#104;&#097;&#100; &#116;&#111; do was bring &#111;&#118;&#101;&#114; his clothes. </p>
<p>But Martin wasn&#8217;t finished. &#116;&#104;&#101; former Jets star and current Hall &#111;&#102; Fame finalist led his dad outside &#097;&#103;&#097;&#105;&#110;, where Curtis Martin Sr. &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; a Cadillac Seville, used but in mint condition, &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a &#104;&#117;&#103;&#101; red bow &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; roof.</p>
<p>&#8220;Happy Father&#8217;s Day, Curt,&#8221; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; Rochella Dixon, &#116;&#104;&#101; woman &#104;&#101; left behind all &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; years ago. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s when &#116;&#104;&#101; tears &#115;&#116;&#097;&#114;&#116;&#101;&#100;. &#116;&#104;&#101; father didn&#8217;t &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; what &#116;&#111; &#115;&#097;&#121;, so &#104;&#101; thanked &#116;&#104;&#101; star NFL running &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107; who welcomed him &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107; into his life, and then &#104;&#101; thanked God &#102;&#111;&#114; giving him &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; a forgiving son. </p>
<p>&#8226; &#8226; &#8226;</p>
<p>Curtis Martin is up &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; Pro Football Hall &#111;&#102; Fame &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; second straight year &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; week, and if you considered nothing but his football r&#233;sum&#233;, they &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; preparing his bust &#102;&#111;&#114; Canton. </p>
<p>He is &#116;&#104;&#101; fourth all-time leading rusher in NFL history &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; 14,101 yards, behind only Emmitt Smith, Walter Payton and Barry Sanders. &#104;&#101; was &#111;&#110;&#101; &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; most consistent and durable backs &#111;&#102; his generation, a player who topped 1,000 yards in each &#111;&#102; his &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; 10 seasons. </p>
<p>That his coach and mentor &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; Jets and &#116;&#104;&#101; New England Patriots, Bill Parcells, is &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; a finalist, &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; potential story even sweeter. Martin relishes &#116;&#104;&#101; idea &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#104;&#101; and &#116;&#104;&#101; man who has played a &#109;&#111;&#114;&#101; important role in his life &#116;&#104;&#097;&#110; anyone would &#098;&#101; inducted &#116;&#111;&#103;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;. </p>
<p>But, &#102;&#111;&#114; Martin, his football accomplishments tell only part &#111;&#102; his story. &#116;&#104;&#101; Hall &#111;&#102; Fame is supposed &#116;&#111; &#8220;honor individuals who &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; outstanding contributions &#116;&#111; professional football,&#8221; according &#116;&#111; &#105;&#116;&#115; mission statement, and &#8220;promote &#116;&#104;&#101; positive values &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; sport.&#8221; </p>
<p>No &#111;&#110;&#101; has represented &#116;&#104;&#101; game better &#116;&#104;&#097;&#110; Martin, who retired in 2005. &#104;&#101; told a story last week &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; day &#104;&#101; was drafted in 1995, when &#104;&#101; was supposed &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; excited &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; big paychecks and bright lights but confided in his mentor, &#116;&#104;&#101; Rev. Leroy Joseph, &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#104;&#101; wasn&#8217;t &#115;&#117;&#114;&#101; &#104;&#101; wanted a career in football. </p>
<p>&#8220;Curtis, all &#116;&#104;&#101; things you want &#116;&#111; do &#102;&#111;&#114; people?&#8221; Joseph told him. &#8220;&#109;&#097;&#121;&#098;&#101; football is just &#116;&#104;&#101; vehicle &#116;&#111; do it.&#8221; So that&#8217;s &#116;&#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#121; &#104;&#101; chose &#116;&#111; approach his time in &#116;&#104;&#101; NFL. A lot &#111;&#102; athletes talk &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#098;&#101;&#105;&#110;&#103; a role model. Martin built his career around it. &#104;&#101; survived &#116;&#104;&#101; gangs &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; Homewood section &#111;&#102; Pittsburgh, where bloodshed and death &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; a part &#111;&#102; his life. &#104;&#101; &#111;&#110;&#099;&#101; &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; his loving grandmother stabbed &#116;&#111; death &#098;&#121; a man who &#108;&#097;&#116;&#101;&#114; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; &#104;&#101; needed money &#116;&#111; pay his phone bill. </p>
<p>He &#109;&#097;&#100;&#101; it &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; NFL and became a star. &#104;&#101; has built a successful business career since his retirement and talks &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; someday buying &#097;&#110; NFL team. But &#116;&#111; Martin, all &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; only matters if &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115; &#115;&#101;&#101; his &#101;&#120;&#097;&#109;&#112;&#108;&#101; and follow him. </p>
<p>&#8220;I wanted &#116;&#111; inspire &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115; &#116;&#111; do &#116;&#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#109;&#101;, and &#110;&#111;&#116; &#116;&#111; settle &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; hand they&#8217;ve been dealt,&#8221; &#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;That&#8217;s what I want &#116;&#111; stand &#102;&#111;&#114;. I &#099;&#097;&#109;&#101; into &#116;&#104;&#101; NFL &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; goal &#111;&#102; &#098;&#101;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#097;&#110; inspiration.&#8221; </p>
<p>Part &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116;, &#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, is &#110;&#111;&#116; letting &#116;&#104;&#101; bitterness from a difficult upbringing &#116;&#097;&#107;&#101; &#111;&#118;&#101;&#114; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; life. &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; means finding forgiveness &#102;&#111;&#114; people, even &#116;&#104;&#101; father &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; abandoned &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; family. </p>
<p>&#8226; &#8226; &#8226; </p>
<p>Curtis Martin Sr. didn&#8217;t expect forgiveness. &#104;&#101; knew &#104;&#101; &#104;&#097;&#100; everything &#104;&#101; wanted in his life &#8212; a caring wife and a young son &#8212; and threw it &#097;&#119;&#097;&#121;. </p>
<p>He was done &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a four-year stint in &#116;&#104;&#101; Army when &#104;&#101; met Rochella Dixon in McKeesport, Pa., his hometown, in 1973. Money was tight, but &#116;&#104;&#101; couple &#100;&#105;&#100; &#105;&#116;&#115; &#098;&#101;&#115;&#116;, until Martin Sr. strayed. </p>
<p>He &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; peer pressure led him &#116;&#111; smoke his &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; marijuana joint when &#104;&#101; was 18, and slowly, &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; led &#116;&#111; &#8220;everything &#101;&#108;&#115;&#101;.&#8221; &#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; &#104;&#101; left his family in 1978, and &#116;&#104;&#101; downward spiral was swift.</p>
<p>&#8220;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; was a time when &#116;&#104;&#101; only thing I owned was &#116;&#104;&#101; clothes I was wearing,&#8221; &#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; in a 2004 interview. &#8220;I lived in shelters, parks, wherever. From &#8217;85 &#116;&#111; &#8217;90, &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; worst years. That&#8217;s when I &#103;&#111;&#116; mixed up &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; crack cocaine. I wouldn&#8217;t &#119;&#105;&#115;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#111;&#110; my worst enemy. </p>
<p>&#8220;I &#104;&#097;&#100; nothing.&#8221; </p>
<p>Those worst years coincided &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; sudden emergence &#111;&#102; a young high school football star &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; shared his &#110;&#097;&#109;&#101;. Martin only &#115;&#116;&#097;&#114;&#116;&#101;&#100; playing football &#097;&#116; Taylor-Allderdice High as a senior &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; his mother wanted him &#116;&#111; do &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#097;&#119;&#097;&#121; from &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; &#097;&#119;&#102;&#117;&#108; neighborhood, and &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; coach, Mark Wittgartner, &#104;&#097;&#100; &#115;&#101;&#101;&#110; his physical talents in gym class. </p>
<p>Martin was a natural from &#116;&#104;&#101; &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; moment &#104;&#101; touched &#116;&#104;&#101; football. &#8220;&#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;, do &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;, &#098;&#101; something&#8221; is &#116;&#104;&#101; motto &#097;&#116; Taylor-Allderdice, and &#116;&#104;&#101; crowds &#097;&#116; games quickly understood &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; Martin&#8217;s career would &#103;&#111; far &#098;&#101;&#121;&#111;&#110;&#100; &#105;&#116;&#115; all-dirt field. </p>
<p>But his father was &#110;&#111;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; &#116;&#111; witness it. </p>
<p>&#8220;I never held a grudge,&#8221; Martin &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;It was him &#110;&#111;&#116; wanting &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; involved in my life. I understand &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116;. &#104;&#101; was strung &#111;&#117;&#116; &#111;&#110; drugs. I understand &#116;&#104;&#101; shame &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#104;&#101; &#104;&#097;&#100; and I never held it against him. It was &#097;&#108;&#119;&#097;&#121;&#115; in my plans &#116;&#111; do &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#102;&#111;&#114; him, but I wanted &#116;&#111; &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101; &#115;&#117;&#114;&#101; &#104;&#101; was fully rehabbed.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8226; &#8226; &#8226; </p>
<p>In 1990, Martin Sr. &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; &#104;&#101; checked &#104;&#105;&#109;&#115;&#101;&#108;&#102; into a veteran&#8217;s hospital in Columbus, Ohio. &#104;&#101; stayed &#116;&#119;&#111; weeks. Then &#104;&#101; entered a rehabilitation center &#102;&#111;&#114; a six-month stay. When &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; was through, Martin Sr. &#097;&#115;&#107;&#101;&#100; &#116;&#111; stay longer.</p>
<p>&#8220;I just &#103;&#111;&#116; sick and tired and sick and tired and sick and tired &#111;&#102; &#098;&#101;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#100;&#111;&#119;&#110; in &#116;&#104;&#101; dump and &#110;&#111;&#116; &#104;&#097;&#118;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#097;&#110;&#121;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; and &#098;&#101;&#105;&#110;&#103; abused,&#8221; Martin Sr. &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ll tell you &#116;&#104;&#101; truth, &#116;&#104;&#101; &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; five or six years (after leaving rehab) I still &#104;&#097;&#100; yearnings &#116;&#111; use. But &#116;&#104;&#097;&#110;&#107; goodness &#116;&#111; God, I didn&#8217;t. It was a tough fight. Even when you sleep, you&#8217;re dreaming &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; it.&#8221; </p>
<p>The Star-Ledger spoke &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; Martin Sr. in 2004, when &#116;&#104;&#101; Jets &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; preparing &#116;&#111; play his hometown Steelers in &#116;&#104;&#101; playoffs. Curtis Martin Jr. &#097;&#115;&#107;&#101;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; newspaper &#110;&#111;&#116; publish &#116;&#104;&#101; story then &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; wounds &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; family still &#104;&#097;&#100; &#110;&#111;&#116; completely healed. </p>
<p>That process took time. Martin gave his father &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; &#105;&#110;&#099;&#114;&#101;&#100;&#105;&#098;&#108;&#101; gifts &#111;&#110; Father&#8217;s Day in 1998, but &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; was &#110;&#111;&#116; a one-time thing. &#104;&#101; visited. &#104;&#101; called. &#104;&#101; became a part &#111;&#102; his life, and in turn, Martin Sr. stayed &#116;&#114;&#117;&#101; &#116;&#111; his promise &#116;&#111; stay &#099;&#108;&#101;&#097;&#110;. </p>
<p>&#8220;&#104;&#101; could &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; just blocked me &#111;&#117;&#116; &#111;&#102; his life, period, if that&#8217;s what &#104;&#101; chose &#116;&#111; do,&#8221; Curtis Martin Sr. &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;I &#116;&#104;&#097;&#110;&#107; God &#104;&#101; is a forgiving son, a forgiving person, and &#104;&#101; let me &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107; in.&#8221;</p>
<p>How &#100;&#105;&#100; Martin forgive? </p>
<p>&#8220;You &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;?&#8221; Martin answered. &#8220;I realized, where I &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; from and especially &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; all &#116;&#104;&#101; things my mother &#104;&#097;&#100; &#103;&#111;&#110;&#101; through, there&#8217;s a bitterness &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; gets embedded in a person&#8217;s heart. </p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve &#115;&#101;&#101;&#110; so &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; people &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; bitterness in &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; lives, and I&#8217;ve &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101; difference &#098;&#101;&#116;&#119;&#101;&#101;&#110; me and a lot &#111;&#102; &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115; is I chose &#116;&#111; forgive. </p>
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<p>&#8220;&#116;&#111; me, coming from where I&#8217;ve &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; from, seeing what I&#8217;ve &#115;&#101;&#101;&#110;, God forgave me, &#119;&#104;&#105;&#099;&#104; is pretty miraculous &#116;&#111; me. &#119;&#101; all &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101; mistakes. God forgave me, who am I &#110;&#111;&#116; &#116;&#111; forgive &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115;?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8226; &#8226; &#8226; </p>
<p>Martin spent &#097;&#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; Father&#8217;s Day &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; his dad in 2009, but &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; &#111;&#110;&#101; was much &#100;&#105;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114;&#101;&#110;&#116;. Cancer &#104;&#097;&#100; attacked his lungs, brain and liver. &#116;&#104;&#101; father was just 58, but &#104;&#101; was running &#111;&#117;&#116; &#111;&#102; time. </p>
<p>The son returned &#116;&#111; New York and, &#116;&#104;&#101; &#110;&#101;&#120;&#116; day, called &#116;&#111; &#115;&#101;&#101; how &#116;&#104;&#101; father was &#100;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103;. </p>
<p>&#8220;Hey man, I &#103;&#111;&#116; &#116;&#111; &#103;&#101;&#116; ready &#116;&#111; &#103;&#111;,&#8221; his father &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;.</p>
<p>Martin &#116;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104;&#116; his father, a man &#111;&#102; few words &#102;&#111;&#114; his entire life, &#104;&#097;&#100; &#116;&#111; &#103;&#101;&#116; off &#116;&#104;&#101; phone &#102;&#111;&#114; a doctor&#8217;s visit or &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#101;&#108;&#115;&#101;. But it turns &#111;&#117;&#116;, it was his &#119;&#097;&#121; &#111;&#102; saying goodbye. &#104;&#101; died &#116;&#104;&#101; &#110;&#101;&#120;&#116; day. </p>
<p>&#8220;&#104;&#101; and I never bonded &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; &#119;&#101; &#100;&#105;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; last &#116;&#119;&#111; weeks &#104;&#101; was alive,&#8221; Martin &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;&#098;&#101;&#102;&#111;&#114;&#101; &#104;&#101; died, &#104;&#101; was a man &#097;&#116; peace. I never wanted &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; my father in &#097;&#110;&#121; &#119;&#097;&#121;, but when it comes &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; day I die, I hope I can &#098;&#101; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; him.&#8221; </p>
<p>Martin believes &#116;&#104;&#101; &#100;&#101;&#099;&#105;&#115;&#105;&#111;&#110; &#116;&#111; forgive his father helped &#116;&#104;&#101; family, including his mother, heal. Dixon was even cooking meals &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; man who left her, Martin &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, as his health deteriorated. </p>
<p>&#8220;&#097;&#116; his funeral, my mother &#099;&#097;&#109;&#101; &#116;&#111; me and &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8216;You &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;, I am so glad you &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; &#110;&#111;&#116; how I was. &#116;&#104;&#101; fact &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; you forgave him helped me forgive him,&#8217;&#8201;&#8221; Martin &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#8220;She told me, &#8216;It would &#098;&#101; so hard if &#104;&#101; died and I never forgave him. I&#8217;m so grateful &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; you helped me do &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116;.&#8217;&#8201;&#8221;</p>
<p>Martin became a father &#104;&#105;&#109;&#115;&#101;&#108;&#102; Dec. 15, welcoming a daughter named Ava into &#116;&#104;&#101; world, and has spent &#116;&#104;&#101; last few weeks dealing &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; emotions all new dads feel. &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121; noise from &#116;&#104;&#101; crib &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101; him jump up from &#116;&#104;&#101; bed &#116;&#111; check &#111;&#110; her, so he&#8217;s sleeping in &#097;&#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; room.</p>
<p>As &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; Hall &#111;&#102; Fame vote &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; week, Martin would &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#111; stand &#097;&#116; Parcells&#8217; &#115;&#105;&#100;&#101; as &#116;&#104;&#101; coach and player are inducted. But what &#104;&#101; &#100;&#105;&#100; in football &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; never define him as a man. </p>
<p>Which, &#111;&#102; &#099;&#111;&#117;&#114;&#115;&#101;, is &#101;&#120;&#097;&#099;&#116;&#108;&#121; why &#104;&#101; belongs. </p>
<p>Steve Politi: ; twitter.com/StevePoliti</p>
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<p>&bull; Politi: Greg Schiano leaves Rutgers, Tim Pernetti &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a tough task</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>HOUSTON, TX: &#116;&#104;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#114;&#101;&#101; distinct phases of my life &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God</b>The &#102;&#111;&#108;&#108;&#111;&#119;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#105;&#115; a sermon preached &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; 12th Annual Winter conference of &#116;&#104;&#101; Anglican Missions in &#116;&#104;&#101; Americas (AMIA) Morning WorshipBy &#116;&#104;&#101; Rev. Dr. Jack Deere January 13, 2012<img src='ANd9GcQ-IhyluYYGfjCaHeK5iONBn9Sg3to9agmTBNWV37KP4TQTTGyN' height='100' align='left' hspace='5' style="float: left;clear: both;margin-top: 0pt;margin-right: 12px;margin-bottom: 12px;margin-left: 0pt" title="VirtueOnline   News   As Eye See It   HOUSTON, TX: The three distinct phases of my life with God" alt=" VirtueOnline   News   As Eye See It   HOUSTON, TX: The three distinct phases of my life with God" />I have &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; this morning &#116;&#111; speak &#116;&#111; those of you who have left &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; buildings &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; church home, &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#097;&#115; Luke 18:29-30 says. (&#8220;I tell you &#116;&#104;&#101; truth&#8221;, Jesus &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; &#116;&#111; them. &#8220;No one who has left home or wife or brothers or parents or children &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; sake of &#116;&#104;&#101; Kingdom of God, &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; fail &#116;&#111; receive &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; times &#097;&#115; &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104; in this age, &#097;&#110;&#100; in &#116;&#104;&#101; age &#116;&#111; &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101;, eternal life.&#8221; NIV) You left a church that no longer &#104;&#097;&#100; a theology, &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; a government.You &#112;&#114;&#111;&#098;&#097;&#098;&#108;&#121; &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; planned &#111;&#110; that.&#097;&#115; a youngster I planned &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; but not &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; Godly. I planned &#116;&#111; &#103;&#101;&#116; married but not &#116;&#111; fall in &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101;. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I &#115;&#097;&#119; Lisa &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; time, sitting in &#116;&#104;&#101; back seat of a convertible. &#104;&#111;&#119; could &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; put that beauty in &#116;&#104;&#101; back seat? &#119;&#101; married a year later &#097;&#110;&#100; I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#115;&#116;&#105;&#108;&#108; am madly in &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101; &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; her.&#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; I learned over &#116;&#104;&#101; next 20 years &#105;&#115; that God &#104;&#097;&#100; it all planned out. That which I &#104;&#097;&#100; not planned &#102;&#111;&#114; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#108;&#114;&#101;&#097;&#100;&#121; &#117;&#110;&#100;&#101;&#114; &#104;&#105;&#115; purview. WE don&#8217;t &#112;&#108;&#097;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; turning points in our lives. &#119;&#101; don&#8217;t &#112;&#108;&#097;&#110; pain.I &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; a lot &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; pain. I grew up in a family where my mother &#097;&#110;&#100; father fought constantly. It &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#108;&#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; &#097;&#108;&#119;&#097;&#121;&#115; my mother, &#097;&#115; she picked fights &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; my dad &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#097;&#110;&#100; anything. My dad became &#116;&#104;&#101; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; &#105;&#109;&#112;&#111;&#114;&#116;&#097;&#110;&#116; person in my life. &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; a war hero &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; WWII &#097;&#110;&#100; &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; home wounded &#097;&#110;&#100; scarred. If I &#104;&#097;&#100; a &#113;&#117;&#101;&#115;&#116;&#105;&#111;&#110;, I asked my dad. If I needed encouragement, I went &#116;&#111; my dad. My mom &#119;&#097;&#115; a bitter, angry woman who &#099;&#117;&#116; rose canes, complete &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; thorns, &#116;&#111; spank &#116;&#104;&#101; four of us. She &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; spank us &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; these canes &#117;&#110;&#116;&#105;&#108; &#119;&#101; bled. I &#117;&#115;&#101;&#100; &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#107; these were &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; spankings. Now I &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; were beatings. I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; oldest of 4. &#097;&#110;&#100; &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; I &#119;&#097;&#115; 12 years &#111;&#108;&#100;, my father paid my mother back &#102;&#111;&#114; all of her misery she inflicted &#111;&#110; him. &#104;&#101; committed suicide. &#104;&#101; left a 34 year &#111;&#108;&#100; widow who did not graduate &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; high school &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; 4 kids. &#119;&#101; were poor. There &#119;&#097;&#115; no &#116;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104;&#116; of anything &#098;&#101;&#121;&#111;&#110;&#100; food &#097;&#110;&#100; shelter. No dreams of college. I &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; my identity &#097;&#115; a kid who lost &#104;&#105;&#115; &#098;&#101;&#115;&#116; friend &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; my dad committed suicide, &#098;&#121; &#098;&#101;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#104;&#101; wildest kid &#097;&#116; school. I drank &#116;&#111; excess &#097;&#110;&#100; drove drunk &#097;&#110;&#100; did drugs &#097;&#110;&#100; I &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#107; if I &#104;&#097;&#100; not &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; God &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; age of 17, I &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; not have lived &#116;&#111; become 21.My &#098;&#101;&#115;&#116; friend &#119;&#097;&#115; named Bruce. &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#111;&#108;&#100; man &#097;&#116; school &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; in 6th grade. Bruce &#104;&#097;&#100; a Nixon button in &#116;&#104;&#101; 6th grade, &#097;&#110;&#100; talked &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; Nixon beating John Kennedy in &#116;&#104;&#101; election. I went home &#097;&#110;&#100; asked my dad, &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#097;&#114;&#101; &#119;&#101;, Republicans or Democrats? &#8220;Democrats,&#8221; my dad &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;. &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; I &#116;&#111;&#108;&#100; Bruce &#116;&#104;&#101; next day &#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;Are you stupid? That man &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; plunge this country &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; ruin.&#8221; That &#119;&#097;&#115; Bruce in 6th gradeIn 8th grade, &#119;&#101; &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; sex. Bruce &#119;&#097;&#115; font of sexual knowledge. &#104;&#105;&#115; older sisters were stewardesses &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#101; &#116;&#111;&#108;&#100; us &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; girls &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#111;&#119; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; worked. &#104;&#101; could &#103;&#101;&#116; close &#116;&#111; all &#116;&#104;&#101; pretty girls. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; trusted him, &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; secrets. Bruce helped us &#103;&#101;&#116; close &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; pretty girls. &#098;&#101;&#102;&#111;&#114;&#101; our Junior year &#104;&#101; got religion &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; Southern Baptist summer camp. &#104;&#101; &#116;&#111;&#111;&#107; obnoxious &#116;&#111; a whole new level. &#104;&#101; came &#116;&#111; school carrying a pocket sized King James Bible &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101; red ribbon sticking out of &#104;&#105;&#115; pocket. &#104;&#101; tried &#116;&#111; talk &#116;&#111; all of us &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; God. &#119;&#101; didn&#8217;t &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; pay attention. Later that year, I spent &#116;&#104;&#101; night &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; him &#8211; I &#119;&#097;&#115; 17- &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; guise of meeting some really pretty girls. &#104;&#101; neglected &#116;&#111; &#115;&#097;&#121; these girls were &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; missionaries. I didn&#8217;t have a &#112;&#108;&#097;&#110; &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; anymore, let alone a &#112;&#108;&#097;&#110; past next week end.&#097;&#116; 2:00 AM, I asked Bruce, &#8220;How &#100;&#111; you &#103;&#101;&#116; &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; heaven?&#8221; That&#8217;s &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; I heard &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; time that Jesus Christ died &#102;&#111;&#114; me &#097;&#110;&#100; if I &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; receive him in my heart, &#104;&#101; &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; leave &#097;&#110;&#100; I &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; have a new life. Imagine that, a new life.That can&#8217;t &#098;&#101; &#116;&#114;&#117;&#101;. &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121;&#111;&#110;&#101; &#105;&#109;&#112;&#111;&#114;&#116;&#097;&#110;&#116; left me. &#104;&#111;&#119; can I &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; this? Bruce &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;Jesus &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; so. &#104;&#101; doesn&#8217;t &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; your heart because you &#097;&#114;&#101; &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100;, but &#116;&#111; give you new life. He&#8217;ll &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; leave you.&#8221;An abandoned fatherless boy saying &#097;&#110;&#100; believing that Jesus &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; leave you. I laid awake all night &#115;&#116;&#097;&#114;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; ceiling &#097;&#110;&#100; &#097;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; sun came up I &#119;&#097;&#115; praying some stumbling prayer &#097;&#110;&#100; I &#119;&#097;&#115; born again that day. &#098;&#121; nightfall, I &#104;&#097;&#100; a father again who planned &#102;&#111;&#114; my life. I &#119;&#097;&#115; a 17 year &#111;&#108;&#100; kid who has &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119;&#110; God &#102;&#111;&#114; 10 hours. A kid &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; reservoir of anger &#105;&#110;&#115;&#105;&#100;&#101;, who &#104;&#097;&#100; &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; &#104;&#097;&#100; one positive male role model &#098;&#101;&#121;&#111;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#105;&#115; father. Tossed &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#098;&#121; raising waves of testosterone. Single mother, no money. No college. No plans &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; future. That&#8217;s &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; Phase One of my life &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God began. Later that month, God sent Young Life &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; my life &#097;&#110;&#100; gave me a mentor there who taught me &#104;&#111;&#119; &#116;&#111; read &#116;&#104;&#101; Bible &#097;&#110;&#100; talk &#116;&#111; kids &#097;&#110;&#100; lead kids &#116;&#111; Christ. Jesus came &#097;&#110;&#100; &#099;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; 12 guys. Why? &#116;&#111; share a life &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; them that counts &#102;&#111;&#114; something. &#116;&#104;&#101; &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; thing &#104;&#101; did &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#111; call &#116;&#104;&#101; 12 &#105;&#115; &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; him. &#116;&#104;&#101; &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; thing in a &#104;&#097;&#112;&#112;&#121; life &#105;&#115; deep friendships. &#104;&#097;&#112;&#112;&#121; life= deep friendships. &#116;&#104;&#101; 12 were &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; him &#102;&#111;&#114; 3.5 years. 3 got &#116;&#111; go everywhere. One &#119;&#097;&#115; &#104;&#105;&#115; &#098;&#101;&#115;&#116; friend. John calls himself &#116;&#104;&#101; &#8216;disciple whom Jesus loved&#8217;. &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; last supper, Peter turned &#116;&#111; John &#097;&#110;&#100; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; &#116;&#111; John, &#8220;You &#097;&#115;&#107; him.&#8221; John wasn&#8217;t afraid &#116;&#111; &#097;&#115;&#107; Jesus &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121;&#111;&#110;&#101; &#101;&#108;&#115;&#101; couldn&#8217;t. John &#119;&#097;&#115; sitting next &#116;&#111; Christ &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; that one of &#116;&#104;&#101; disciples &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; betray him. Jesus replied, &#8221; Well John it&#8217;s &#116;&#104;&#101; person I give this bread &#116;&#111;.&#8221; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#101; placed it in Judas&#8217; hands. (John13:21-26)The next day, 4 women &#097;&#110;&#100; John were standing &#097;&#116; foot of cross. &#097;&#116; noon, Jesus &#108;&#111;&#111;&#107;&#115; &#097;&#116; &#104;&#105;&#115; mother &#097;&#110;&#100; says &#116;&#111; John,&#8221; Behold your mother; woman, behold your son.&#8221;From that hour &#104;&#101; gave &#104;&#105;&#115; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; precious thing &#116;&#111; &#104;&#105;&#115; &#098;&#101;&#115;&#116; friend. That &#119;&#097;&#115; &#104;&#105;&#115; mom. John cared &#102;&#111;&#114; her &#117;&#110;&#116;&#105;&#108; she died.I didn&#8217;t &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; &#104;&#111;&#119; long it &#116;&#111;&#111;&#107; &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; friends &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; Jesus. &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; a soul winner. I led a bunch of kids &#116;&#111; Christ &#097;&#110;&#100; &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#105;&#109;&#101;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; parents. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I &#104;&#097;&#100; friends &#097;&#116; Dallas Theological Seminary that really knew &#116;&#104;&#101; Bible. I &#116;&#111;&#111;&#107; a Bible class &#097;&#110;&#100; &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; great &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101; &#102;&#111;&#114; Greek &#097;&#110;&#100; Hebrew. Now I &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#107; of Jesus &#097;&#110;&#100; God &#097;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; great teacher. &#104;&#111;&#119; &#100;&#111; you &#112;&#108;&#101;&#097;&#115;&#101; a teacher? Study harder. I waded &#116;&#104;&#114;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104; thousands of Greek &#097;&#110;&#100; Hebrew manuscripts, &#102;&#111;&#108;&#108;&#111;&#119;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#104;&#101; biblical argument. I &#104;&#097;&#100; 3 professors who encouraged these skills. Something &#101;&#108;&#115;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#111;&#110; &#098;&#101;&#115;&#105;&#100;&#101; me that &#119;&#097;&#115; not &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100;. I got a doctor&#8217;s degree &#097;&#110;&#100; became a professor there &#102;&#111;&#114; 12 years. &#104;&#097;&#100; my dream job of studying &#097;&#110;&#100; started a church in Fort Worth. A Presbyterian church because that &#105;&#115; &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; I knew. Dealing in knowledge so &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104;, I now dealt &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God &#097;&#115; a story, not a person. Could quote them but did not &#8220;know&#8221; &#116;&#104;&#101; Scriptures.&#097;&#116; 37 I encountered a turning point I didn&#8217;t &#112;&#108;&#097;&#110;. It &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#110; encounter &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; Holy Spirit. This &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; beginning of Phase II of my life &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God. &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; this, I pulled closer &#116;&#111; God but pulled &#097;&#119;&#097;&#121; &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; 20-30 year relationships that &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; got restored. I began &#116;&#111; tell God daily &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; a priviledged life &#104;&#101; has given me. It &#119;&#097;&#115; a turning point that God &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#097;&#107;&#105;&#110;&#103; me a &#100;&#105;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114;&#101;&#110;&#116; path. Not a better path, but &#100;&#105;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114;&#101;&#110;&#116; path. &#116;&#104;&#101; healing ministry &#105;&#115; awesome. I &#115;&#097;&#119; blind eyes opened &#097;&#110;&#100; limbs lengthened &#097;&#110;&#100; people &#111;&#110; crutches walk. All miracles. God did it all. &#105;&#115; anybody against that? No, but &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#097;&#114;&#101; against &#116;&#104;&#101; abuse of &#116;&#104;&#101; Holy Spirit. Scripture &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; that God tossed these gifts in John&#8217;s coffin in 95 AD. I couldn&#8217;t distinguish between &#116;&#104;&#101; &#100;&#105;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114;&#101;&#110;&#099;&#101; between &#116;&#104;&#101; abuse of &#116;&#104;&#101; Spirit &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101; appropriate &#117;&#115;&#101; of &#116;&#104;&#101; Spirit. Now I &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; that &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#097;&#114;&#101; tools. &#116;&#104;&#101; Spirit gives us tools.Believing in &#116;&#104;&#101; Holy Spirit didn&#8217;t &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; make worship services better, but in my life, God &#115;&#116;&#111;&#112;&#112;&#101;&#100; &#098;&#101;&#105;&#110;&#103; a principle &#097;&#110;&#100; started &#098;&#101;&#105;&#110;&#103; a person again. I started feeling &#116;&#104;&#101; affection of God. I &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; God loves me &#118;&#115; I feel God loves me. During my friendship &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; John Wimber, I re-met this God who &#105;&#115; really personal &#097;&#110;&#100; that &#119;&#097;&#115; a great stage in my life &#097;&#110;&#100; development. It lasted &#117;&#110;&#116;&#105;&#108; I &#119;&#097;&#115; 42. &#119;&#101; &#109;&#111;&#118;&#101;&#100; &#116;&#111; Whitefish MT in PCUSA. I led one of &#116;&#104;&#114;&#101;&#101; churches in &#116;&#104;&#101; presbytery that believed in Scripture. I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; ministry commission &#097;&#110;&#100; &#119;&#101; were planning &#116;&#104;&#101; ordination &#102;&#111;&#114; a guy that didn&#8217;t &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; that Jesus died &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; cross. I asked if &#119;&#101; should ordain him. No one in &#116;&#104;&#101; room &#104;&#097;&#100; any doubts but me. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I asked &#102;&#111;&#114; clarification in &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#119;&#101; &#100;&#111; &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101;. I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#111;&#108;&#100; &#119;&#101; &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; in &#116;&#104;&#101; Book of Order. You can&#8217;t baptize &#116;&#119;&#105;&#099;&#101; or you&#8217;ll &#103;&#101;&#116; kicked out of &#116;&#104;&#101; ministy. That&#8217;s &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; believed. My church did well &#097;&#110;&#100; I &#119;&#097;&#115; invited in 1996 &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; primary speaker &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; General Assembly. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; asked &#116;&#104;&#101; one guy that believes in &#116;&#104;&#101; Holy Spirit &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; main speaker. This &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; worship of Sofia &#119;&#097;&#115; banned &#098;&#121; PCUSA. Walking &#116;&#104;&#114;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104; exhibition hall, I walked past 20 people chanting &#116;&#111; Sophia. No one in &#116;&#104;&#101; leadership/hierarchy cared. I realized it &#119;&#097;&#115; a church that no longer &#104;&#097;&#100; a theology, &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; a government.&#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; did my church have &#102;&#111;&#114; &#099;&#101;&#114;&#116;&#097;&#105;&#110;? &#119;&#101; &#104;&#097;&#100; a form of government &#097;&#110;&#100; a property deed. Declining membership fits &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; message that man &#105;&#115; &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; because no one believes it. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; don&#8217;t realize that it takes &#116;&#104;&#101; power of Jesus Christ &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#105;&#115; blood &#116;&#111; change a human heart. Did 2 yrs in PCUSA in Montana &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#119;&#097;&#115; booted out. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I lived my dream life in Montana writing books &#097;&#110;&#100; traveling, watching soaring eagles &#097;&#110;&#100; antelope &#111;&#117;&#116;&#115;&#105;&#100;&#101; my study window. Me &#097;&#110;&#100; God were &#104;&#097;&#118;&#105;&#110;&#103; a &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; time. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I read a story &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; a janitor who retired &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; millions because of a few tech stocks. So I started &#116;&#111; investigate that. I read &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; tech world &#097;&#110;&#100; invested a &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101; money &#097;&#110;&#100; it doubled &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I invested more. I made a pile of money. It &#119;&#097;&#115; exhilarating. I &#119;&#097;&#115; reading a lot &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; stock market, charts, financial reports &#8211; lots more than I &#119;&#097;&#115; reading &#116;&#104;&#101; Bible. But there &#119;&#097;&#115; so &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104; &#116;&#111; learn in &#116;&#104;&#101; world of markets. I didn&#8217;t leave God but ignored him &#102;&#111;&#114; a &#119;&#104;&#105;&#108;&#101;. I &#104;&#097;&#100; a number, a financial number. I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; pull it all out of &#116;&#104;&#101; stock market &#097;&#110;&#100; invest my money very carefully. God &#097;&#110;&#100; I could &#098;&#101; independent &#097;&#110;&#100; &#119;&#101; could &#100;&#111; whatever &#119;&#101; wanted. Smart &#097;&#110;&#100; Rich. Feeling independent. Not &#101;&#120;&#097;&#099;&#116;&#108;&#121; &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; &#102;&#111;&#114; Jesus&#8217; followers. &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; a prime athlete, all I &#104;&#097;&#100; came &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; God. &#116;&#104;&#101; talent, &#116;&#104;&#101; drive, &#116;&#104;&#101; desire. In March 2000 driving down &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; my house &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; top of &#116;&#104;&#101; hill, I heard a voice that &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;Sell &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;.&#8221; Sounded &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; God but &#116;&#104;&#101; voice made no sense &#116;&#111; me. So, I argued, &#8220;But Lord, &#098;&#121; &#116;&#104;&#101; middle of summer, I &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; have my number &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; quit. I &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; sell it all.&#8221;Tech stocks began falling in April. &#098;&#121; Sept, I lost &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; of my net worth. It didn&#8217;t matter, because there &#119;&#097;&#115; plenty left. Or so I &#116;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104;&#116;.&#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I went &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; third phase of life &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God. Lisa &#097;&#110;&#100; I &#104;&#097;&#100; 3 kids &#8211; a perfect son &#097;&#110;&#100; perfect daughter. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; there &#119;&#097;&#115; Scott, our middle child. &#119;&#101; fought &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; him &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; day &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; born &#097;&#110;&#100; &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; &#115;&#116;&#111;&#112;&#112;&#101;&#100;. Caught him smoking marijuana &#097;&#116; 13 &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; rehab &#098;&#121; 17. Girls pursued Scott &#098;&#121; kindergarten. &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; a charmer, &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#108;&#119;&#097;&#121;&#115; &#097;&#098;&#108;&#101; &#116;&#111; &#102;&#105;&#110;&#100; people &#116;&#111; take care of him. Went &#116;&#111; rehab again. &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; &#104;&#101; came out &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#111;&#107; &#102;&#111;&#114; a &#119;&#104;&#105;&#108;&#101;. &#098;&#121; &#116;&#104;&#101; summer of 2000 &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; sleeping in a garage &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a dog. Part of &#104;&#105;&#115; &#116;&#114;&#111;&#117;&#098;&#108;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; a dad who &#097;&#108;&#119;&#097;&#121;&#115; rescued him, &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; there &#119;&#097;&#115; no one left &#116;&#111; charm. I &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#115;&#097;&#121;, &#8220;Scott, this &#105;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#098;&#101;&#115;&#116; day of your life. You have &#116;&#111; change.&#8221;He &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#114;&#101;&#112;&#108;&#121;, &#8220;I &#119;&#097;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; change dad.&#8221; I &#097;&#108;&#119;&#097;&#121;&#115; believed him &#097;&#110;&#100; &#097;&#108;&#119;&#097;&#121;&#115; rescued him. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; in July &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; mountain top, God &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;Bring Scott home &#097;&#110;&#100; treat him &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; prodigal son.&#8221; That&#8217;s &#101;&#120;&#097;&#099;&#116;&#108;&#121; &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; I did. &#098;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104;&#116; him a $30,000 pickup, set him up in &#097;&#110; apartment &#097;&#116; Montana State in Bozeman &#097;&#110;&#100; began &#116;&#111; see him regularly. I &#116;&#111;&#111;&#107; him out &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; me every time I went out hunting or fishing. &#119;&#101; could actually communicate during that time. &#119;&#101; were finally &#111;&#110; our &#119;&#097;&#121; &#116;&#111; perfect.Christmas night, 2001. Scott &#119;&#097;&#115; &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; out &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a girlfriend. &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; he&#8217;d &#098;&#101; back. Morning came &#097;&#110;&#100; Scott didn&#8217;t &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; down &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#104;&#105;&#115; room &#097;&#110;&#100; I went up &#116;&#111; wake him up. I opened &#116;&#104;&#101; door &#116;&#111; &#104;&#105;&#115; room &#097;&#110;&#100; knew instantly something &#119;&#097;&#115; &#119;&#114;&#111;&#110;&#103;. &#104;&#101; &#105;&#115; sitting &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; end of &#104;&#105;&#115; bed, fully clothed, legs splayed out in front of him. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; I &#115;&#097;&#119; &#116;&#104;&#101; blood. I knelt down &#098;&#101;&#115;&#105;&#100;&#101; him. My gun &#119;&#097;&#115; in &#104;&#105;&#115; hand. &#104;&#101; shot himself. &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; dead. I went &#116;&#111; Lisa &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#111;&#108;&#100; her that Scott &#104;&#097;&#100; shot himself in our house &#097;&#110;&#100; &#119;&#097;&#115; dead. I &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; &#116;&#111; her, &#8220;Don&#8217;t go &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#104;&#105;&#115; room. It&#8217;s &#097;&#119;&#102;&#117;&#108;.&#8221;She &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;If you don&#8217;t let me &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; that room right now, I&#8217;ll &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; forgive you.&#8221;We went in &#097;&#110;&#100; held Scott. Elise &#119;&#097;&#115; praying in &#116;&#104;&#101; doorway. Praying that God &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; give Scott back &#116;&#111; us. Finally, &#116;&#104;&#101; police came &#097;&#110;&#100; asked us &#116;&#111; leave &#116;&#104;&#101; room. &#119;&#101; did. &#119;&#101; left &#102;&#111;&#114; weeks. &#119;&#101; couldn&#8217;t face &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; back there. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#116;&#111;&#111;&#107; Scott &#097;&#119;&#097;&#121;. Scott &#116;&#111;&#111;&#107; &#097;&#119;&#097;&#121; a lot of &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; us: peace, security, &#097;&#110;&#100; our joy. Job &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;The Lord has &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#097;&#110;&#100; taken them &#097;&#119;&#097;&#121;. Blessed &#098;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#110;&#097;&#109;&#101; of &#116;&#104;&#101; Lord.&#8221;Now I &#104;&#097;&#100; &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; that God could &#098;&#101; blessed in &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#104;&#101; did. Lost all &#116;&#104;&#101; money in &#116;&#104;&#101; stock market; lost my son. &#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#119;&#097;&#115; valuable &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; that day. Don&#8217;t let kids &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; that marijuana &#105;&#115; not addictive. It &#105;&#115; a gateway drug.One month &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; &#119;&#101; lost Scott, a friend sent me &#097;&#110; email saying suicides don&#8217;t go &#116;&#111; heaven. &#104;&#101; &#101;&#120;&#112;&#108;&#097;&#105;&#110;&#101;&#100; that if you die &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; unconfessed sin you can&#8217;t go &#116;&#111; heaven. Didn&#8217;t &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; &#114;&#101;&#112;&#108;&#121; &#116;&#111; that email. &#115;&#105;&#110;&#099;&#101; I &#119;&#097;&#115; 17, I knew &#104;&#111;&#119; people &#103;&#101;&#116; &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; heaven. Trust Jesus, &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; in him &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#101; &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#115; &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; your heart &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#101; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; leave. Now, I have &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; that &#116;&#111; have a relationship &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; him. I &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; it means &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; accepted &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; loving arms of Christ. (The sermon continued &#097;&#115; Dr. Jack read &#116;&#111; us &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; a chapter of a new book &#104;&#101; &#105;&#115; finishing. &#116;&#104;&#101; chapter &#105;&#115; called Friendship &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God. )&#8221;I have no doubt where my son &#105;&#115;. God has planned a great reunion &#102;&#111;&#114; us. Sometime in &#116;&#104;&#101; future, a great reunion. My doubt &#105;&#115; &#104;&#111;&#119; &#116;&#111; &#102;&#105;&#110;&#105;&#115;&#104; this life. Lisa &#105;&#115; overwhelmed &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; grief. &#119;&#101; buried Scott &#111;&#110; Jan 1, 2001. I &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;We &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; see Scott again.&#8221; She looked &#097;&#116; me &#097;&#110;&#100; didn&#8217;t comment.Two weeks later, she woke up in a thunder storm, hysterical. &#8221; I don&#8217;t &#119;&#097;&#110;&#116; him &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; &#099;&#111;&#108;&#100; &#097;&#110;&#100; wet. He&#8217;s lying in &#116;&#104;&#101; coffin so &#099;&#111;&#108;&#100; &#097;&#110;&#100; wet. I can&#8217;t &#104;&#101;&#108;&#112; it. That&#8217;s &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; I &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101;.&#8221; I tried &#116;&#111; comfort her, &#116;&#111; &#101;&#120;&#112;&#108;&#097;&#105;&#110; that &#119;&#101; leave our bodies &#098;&#101;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#100; &#097;&#110;&#100; Scott &#119;&#097;&#115; not in that coffin. &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; home &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God. &#104;&#101; wasn&#8217;t &#099;&#111;&#108;&#100; &#097;&#110;&#100; wet. &#119;&#101; &#097;&#114;&#101; &#100;&#105;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114;&#101;&#110;&#116;, Lisa &#097;&#110;&#100; I. Jesus &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8220;I &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; raise him up &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; last day.&#8221; Scott &#105;&#115; &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; Jesus. &#097;&#116; &#104;&#105;&#115; resurrection Jesus received a new body &#097;&#110;&#100; Scott &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#116;&#111;&#111; some day. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; Scott&#8217;s property arrived. 3 bags &#097;&#110;&#100; a box, not &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104; &#102;&#111;&#114; 23 years of living. I looked &#097;&#116; that box &#097;&#110;&#100; those bags &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#107; that &#105;&#115; all &#104;&#101; left &#098;&#101;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#100;. It&#8217;s so &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101;. All anyone can take &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; them &#116;&#111; eternal life &#105;&#115; a heart. &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#101;&#108;&#115;&#101; goes &#116;&#111; dust. Lisa looked &#097;&#116; belongings &#097;&#110;&#100; held them &#097;&#110;&#100; smelled them, refusing &#116;&#111; let go. She &#105;&#115; holding &#111;&#110; &#116;&#111; her son. I am &#116;&#114;&#121;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; let go. Lisa despairs because she can&#8217;t live &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101; doubt. I take refuge in my mind, &#116;&#104;&#101; &#112;&#108;&#097;&#099;&#101; I have gone &#116;&#111; all my life &#102;&#111;&#114; comfort &#097;&#110;&#100; solace &#097;&#110;&#100; peace.But, doubt encroaches. &#102;&#111;&#114; years, I began every day praying that God &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; shelter &#097;&#110;&#100; protect us. Father, protect us? Now? &#109;&#097;&#121;&#098;&#101; all prayer &#105;&#115; obsolete. All of our friends were useless. If you haven&#8217;t lost a child &#116;&#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#121; &#119;&#101; lost a child, you can&#8217;t understand. &#119;&#101; tried counseling. &#116;&#104;&#101; day &#119;&#101; buried Scott, a person &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100; that &#119;&#101; &#104;&#097;&#100; received severe mercy. &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#105;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; mercy? Two weeks &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; &#119;&#101; buried Scott, my mercy arrived. I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#114;&#121;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; save my life &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; this abyss of insanity. &#104;&#105;&#115; death &#119;&#097;&#115; all I could &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#107; of. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#098;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#102;&#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; funeral arrived. It &#119;&#097;&#115; $10,064.69 &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; wanted payment immediately. That &#115;&#097;&#109;&#101; day, a sack full of mail arrived. Sympathy cards. 38 cards &#097;&#110;&#100; those 38 cards &#104;&#097;&#100; 22 checks in them. One check &#102;&#111;&#114; each year of Scott&#8217;s life. I opened &#116;&#104;&#101; cards &#097;&#110;&#100; added up &#116;&#104;&#101; checks. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; totaled $10,064.&#116;&#104;&#101; Voice &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, &#8221; I paid &#102;&#111;&#114; &#104;&#105;&#115; death. I paid &#102;&#111;&#114; &#104;&#105;&#115; life &#097;&#110;&#100; I &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; pay &#102;&#111;&#114; &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; you need &#116;&#104;&#101; rest of your life.&#8221; That&#8217;s &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; my father&#8217;s &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101; feels &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101;. &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; of my life, I tried &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; significant. Now, I &#119;&#097;&#115; feeling significant &#097;&#112;&#097;&#114;&#116; &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; my performance. &#109;&#097;&#121;&#098;&#101; all Jesus &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; wanted &#119;&#097;&#115; a friend.&#119;&#105;&#115;&#104; I could &#115;&#097;&#121; that &#116;&#104;&#101; sun started shining in my life again. God did not remove my pain. &#116;&#104;&#101; death of my son &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; darkest, hardest 10 years of my life. &#119;&#101; retreated &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#116;&#104;&#101; world. &#119;&#101; lived in a cave. My son&#8217;s death &#119;&#097;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; door &#116;&#111; that cave. &#119;&#101; crept in &#102;&#117;&#114;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#102;&#117;&#114;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; &#116;&#114;&#121;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; escape &#116;&#104;&#101; pain, &#116;&#104;&#101; insanity of it all. &#116;&#104;&#101; death of my son &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; door &#116;&#111; a deeper walk &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; God. Two years &#097;&#103;&#111;, I &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; Jesus in &#116;&#104;&#101; cave &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; me. &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; sitting there, but I knew that I &#119;&#097;&#115; not alone in my pain. Joy came back &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; my life. John lived in a cave &#111;&#110; Patmos &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; end of &#104;&#105;&#115; life. &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; if &#119;&#101; retreat &#116;&#111; a cave, Jesus &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#102;&#105;&#110;&#100; us, &#103;&#101;&#116; us &#097;&#110;&#100; take us out of that cave &#116;&#111; a party that &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; end.&#8221; (reading ended here) I &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; that &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; of you &#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; today &#097;&#114;&#101; in pain. &#097;&#108;&#108;&#111;&#119; Jesus &#116;&#111; redeem your pain. If &#119;&#101; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#100;&#111; that, &#104;&#101; can produce something that &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; bear &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104; fruit. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; Anglican Mission &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#098;&#101; &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119;&#110; &#102;&#111;&#114; its friendship &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; Jesus Christ &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101; joy of that friendship &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; bring &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; kingdom. AMEN.END</p>
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		<title>Compassion International gives kids a hand up</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />The refrigerator door &#105;&#115; &#119;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; parents &#111;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#110; show off &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; children&#x92;s artwork &#097;&#110;&#100; &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; achievements.But it looks different &#105;&#110; the apartment &#111;&#102; Sarah &#097;&#110;&#100; Eric Fox-Linton.&#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114;&#115; &#105;&#115; filled with photos &#097;&#110;&#100; letters from children &#105;&#110; Uganda &#097;&#110;&#100; Mexico, children the Atchison, Kan., couple sponsor through Compassion International.Compassion &#105;&#115; one &#111;&#102; several organizations, &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; as World [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/compassion-international-gives-kids-a-hand-up">Compassion International gives kids a hand up</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p> The refrigerator door &#105;&#115; &#119;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; parents &#111;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#110; show off &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; children&#x92;s artwork &#097;&#110;&#100; &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; achievements.But it looks different &#105;&#110; the apartment &#111;&#102; Sarah &#097;&#110;&#100; Eric Fox-Linton.&#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114;&#115; &#105;&#115; filled with photos &#097;&#110;&#100; letters from children &#105;&#110; Uganda &#097;&#110;&#100; Mexico, children the Atchison, Kan., couple sponsor through Compassion International.Compassion &#105;&#115; one &#111;&#102; several organizations, &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; as World Vision, &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; sponsors children overseas.Married &#105;&#110; 2008, the Fox-Lintons have &#110;&#111; children. Eric &#105;&#115; &#097; physics professor at Benedictine College &#105;&#110; Atchison, &#097;&#110;&#100; Sarah &#105;&#115; working &#111;&#110; her masters &#105;&#110; higher education administration.But the pride they have &#105;&#110; &#097; &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101; boy from Uganda &#097;&#110;&#100; two girls from Mexico &#105;&#115; almost equal &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#111;&#102; parents with biological children. &#117;&#110;&#100;&#101;&#114; &#097; living room end table &#105;&#115; &#097; folder for each child, filled with letters &#097;&#110;&#100; photos &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; show each one&#x92;s progress. The couple&#x92;s conversation reflects &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; pride.&#x93;Abraham &#105;&#115; &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; &#097; special &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101; guy &#116;&#111; &#117;&#115;,&#x94; Sarah said. The couple started sponsoring &#104;&#105;&#109; &#115;&#111;&#111;&#110; after they were married, &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; he &#119;&#097;&#115; 5 years old. He lives with &#104;&#105;&#115; parents &#097;&#110;&#100; six siblings.&#x93;We wanted &#097; child from Uganda because &#111;&#102; the war &#097;&#110;&#100; the kidnapping &#111;&#102; kids &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101;,&#x94; Sarah said.&#x93;It&#x92;s &#098;&#101;&#101;&#110; wonderful &#116;&#111; see &#104;&#105;&#115; progress,&#x94; she said. &#x93;&#105;&#110; the first picture he &#119;&#097;&#115; barefoot, &#104;&#105;&#115; clothes were too &#098;&#105;&#103; for &#104;&#105;&#109;, &#097;&#110;&#100; he &#119;&#097;&#115; &#110;&#111;&#116; smiling.&#x93;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#105;&#110; &#104;&#105;&#115; next picture, he looked &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; &#097; completely different child. He &#119;&#097;&#115; wearing shoes &#097;&#110;&#100; clothes &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; fit &#104;&#105;&#109;, &#097;&#110;&#100; he &#104;&#097;&#100; &#097; happy smile. &#105;&#110; the &#116;&#104;&#105;&#114;&#100; photo, he &#119;&#097;&#115; wearing &#097; vest &#097;&#110;&#100; shorts, shoes &#097;&#110;&#100; socks. It &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097; world &#111;&#102; difference from the first picture.&#x94;They send &#104;&#105;&#109; money for Christmas, &#097;&#110;&#100; he spends most &#111;&#102; it &#116;&#111; buy farm animals &#097;&#110;&#100; food for &#104;&#105;&#115; family &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#111; make donations &#116;&#111; &#104;&#105;&#115; church, Eric said. Compassion International requires sponsors &#116;&#111; contribute $38 &#097; month for each child &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#111; write &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109;. The organization partners with churches &#105;&#110; 26 countries. Along with Compassion personnel, &#119;&#104;&#111; are natives &#111;&#102; the countries, the churches provide Christian training, education &#097;&#110;&#100; health care.&#x93;We &#098;&#101;&#108;&#105;&#101;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; as God changes the life &#111;&#102; &#097; child, he &#111;&#114; she can change &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; community &#097;&#110;&#100; country &#097;&#110;&#100; the world,&#x94; said Amy Tumpes, the Southwest regional ministry manager for Compassion. Shirley Greenlee &#111;&#102; Mission &#105;&#115; the Compassion church team leader at the United Methodist Church &#111;&#102; the Resurrection &#105;&#110; Leawood, &#119;&#104;&#105;&#099;&#104; has one &#111;&#102; the largest programs &#105;&#110; the area, with &#109;&#111;&#114;&#101; than 1,000 sponsors. She has sponsored &#097; girl from Honduras for &#115;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; years, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; girl graduates from school, she will have learned &#097; trade, Greenlee said. She likes &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; the program offers &#097; hand &#117;&#112; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#110;&#111;&#116; &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#097; hand &#111;&#117;&#116;. &#x93;Helping &#116;&#104;&#101;&#115;&#101; kids &#103;&#101;&#116; &#097;&#110; education &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#111; &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; Jesus Christ helps &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; &#116;&#111; &#104;&#101;&#108;&#112; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; country,&#x94; she said. &#x93;One young lady &#119;&#104;&#111; &#104;&#097;&#100; &#098;&#101;&#101;&#110; &#097; sponsored child &#103;&#111;&#116; her education &#097;&#110;&#100; &#110;&#111;&#119; &#105;&#115; &#105;&#110; the Parliament &#105;&#110; Uganda.&#x94; Sarah Fox-Linton said it &#105;&#115; &#103;&#114;&#101;&#097;&#116; &#116;&#111; see the children grow &#097;&#110;&#100; learn. For instance, at first people from Compassion helped Abraham write letters. &#110;&#111;&#119; he writes &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; himself.&#x93;He &#105;&#115; always &#115;&#097;&#121;&#105;&#110;&#103;, &#x91;&#116;&#104;&#097;&#110;&#107; you,&#x92; &#097;&#110;&#100; he prays for &#117;&#115; &#097; lot &#097;&#110;&#100; &#119;&#097;&#110;&#116;&#115; &#116;&#111; &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; about &#119;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; we live,&#x94; Sarah said, adding &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; one day the couple &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; &#116;&#111; visit &#104;&#105;&#109;.They did &#103;&#101;&#116; &#116;&#111; visit the two girls they sponsor &#105;&#110; Mexico. They started sponsoring Daniela, &#119;&#104;&#111; &#119;&#097;&#115; 9, &#097;&#110;&#100; Anayeli, &#119;&#104;&#111; &#119;&#097;&#115; 7, &#105;&#110; March &#111;&#102; last year, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#105;&#110; July &#111;&#102; 2011 they &#119;&#101;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; Mexico &#116;&#111; see &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109;. First &#119;&#097;&#115; Daniela, &#119;&#104;&#111; lives with &#097;&#110; aunt &#105;&#110; far southern Mexico. Her mother moved &#116;&#111; &#097;&#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; city &#116;&#111; work &#097;&#110;&#100; visits &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; she can.&#x93;&#097;&#108;&#108; the people from Compassion were excited &#116;&#111; see &#117;&#115;,&#x94; Sarah said. &#x93;We were overwhelmed.&#x94; The church &#104;&#097;&#100; &#097; &#098;&#105;&#103; dinner for &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109;, &#097;&#110;&#100; the couple distributed gifts &#116;&#111; the children, including books for Daniela, &#119;&#104;&#111; likes &#116;&#111; read.Sarah said they &#104;&#097;&#100; sent Daniela &#097; picture from &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; wedding, &#097;&#110;&#100; her aunt &#104;&#097;&#100; hung it &#111;&#110; the porch. &#x93;&#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097; surprise, &#116;&#111; &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; house &#097;&#110;&#100; see our wedding photo,&#x94; she said.The next day they visited Anayeli, &#119;&#104;&#111; lives with &#097; grandmother &#105;&#110; &#097;&#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; &#112;&#097;&#114;&#116; &#111;&#102; Mexico. &#097;&#108;&#108; the children at the church &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; runs the Compassion project ran &#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#111; greet &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109;. The couple looked at the crowd, &#116;&#114;&#121;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; pick &#111;&#117;&#116; Anayeli. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097; ceremony first, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; Anayeli &#119;&#097;&#115; brought &#111;&#117;&#116;.&#x93;She &#119;&#097;&#115; &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; so precious &#097;&#110;&#100; excited &#116;&#111; meet &#117;&#115;,&#x94; Sarah said. &#x93;She &#119;&#097;&#115; kind &#111;&#102; shy, but as the day &#119;&#101;&#110;&#116; &#111;&#110; she warmed &#117;&#112; &#116;&#111; &#117;&#115;.&#x93;We gave her &#097; book, &#097; backpack with school supplies &#097;&#110;&#100; paper dolls. She &#104;&#097;&#100; never seen paper dolls, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; said, &#x91;&#104;&#111;&#119; pretty.&#x92;&#x93;We &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; brought presents for both girls &#116;&#111; &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; friends &#097;&#110;&#100; cousins. &#097;&#110;&#100; each &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; surprised &#117;&#115; with gifts they &#104;&#097;&#100; &#109;&#097;&#100;&#101; for &#117;&#115;. We thought we &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107; home with lighter suitcases.&#x94;They &#108;&#097;&#116;&#101;&#114; &#119;&#101;&#110;&#116; with Anayeli &#097;&#110;&#100; her grandmother &#116;&#111; &#097; river &#119;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; they wash &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; clothes. Eric said &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; visiting the girls let &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; see the impact the program has &#111;&#110; the children.&#x93;Poverty &#105;&#115; &#110;&#111;&#116; &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#097; lack &#111;&#102; material goods, but &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; &#097; lack &#111;&#102; hope,&#x94; he said. &#x93;You have &#116;&#111; &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; &#097; sense &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; they are &#108;&#111;&#118;&#101;&#100; by &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115;, &#097;&#110;&#100; they are given hope through &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; program. Through the Bible teaching they learn &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; they are important &#105;&#110; God&#x92;s eyes, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; really increases &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; self-worth.&#x94;He said &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; he reads about the lives &#111;&#102; children &#105;&#110; the program &#097;&#110;&#100; about &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; waiting for &#097; sponsor, it &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101;&#115; &#104;&#105;&#109; perspective &#111;&#110; &#104;&#105;&#115; &#111;&#119;&#110; worries.&#x93;It makes &#109;&#121; everyday problems &#115;&#101;&#101;&#109; small.&#x94;Eric said &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101; people &#109;&#097;&#121; want &#116;&#111; &#104;&#101;&#108;&#112; children &#105;&#110; the United States, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#105;&#115; &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100;, &#x93;as long as you are doing something.&#x94;&#x93;But I feel the need &#105;&#115; greater overseas for &#097; lot &#111;&#102; kids,&#x94; he said. &#x93;For instance, even the poorest people here can &#103;&#101;&#116; &#099;&#108;&#101;&#097;&#110; drinking water, whereas &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#105;&#115; &#097; challenge for &#097; lot &#111;&#102; kids overseas.&#x94; The couple said they &#101;&#110;&#106;&#111;&#121; sponsoring the children &#097;&#110;&#100; writing &#097;&#110;&#100; praying for &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; together.&#x93;It&#x92;s the highlight &#111;&#102; our day &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; we &#103;&#101;&#116; &#097; new letter &#105;&#110; the mail from one &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109;,&#x94; Sarah said.She has learned &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; it&#x92;s easy &#116;&#111; spend money &#111;&#110; yourself, but generosity &#105;&#115; &#109;&#111;&#114;&#101; rewarding.&#x93;I &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; so much &#114;&#097;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; have Abraham than &#097;&#110; extra $38 &#097; month &#116;&#111; eat &#111;&#117;&#116; &#111;&#114; have &#097; better cellphone &#112;&#108;&#097;&#110;.&#x94;</p>
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		<title>Kate Middleton given sleeping bag, goggles and Vegemite among bizarre royal tour gifts</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 18:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />Prince William &#097;&#110;&#100; Kate Middleton, the Duke &#097;&#110;&#100; Duchess of Cambridge wave to the crowds in Calgary (Pic: Getty Images) A sleeping bag, snow goggles, &#097; papier-m&#226;ch&#233; doll &#097;&#110;&#100; &#097; jar of Vegemite were &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; some of the unusual gifts &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101;&#110; to the Duke &#097;&#110;&#100; Duchess of Cambridge &#108;&#097;&#115;&#116; year. Advertisement &#62;&#62; The bizarre items [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/kate-middleton-given-sleeping-bag-goggles-and-vegemite-among-bizarre-royal-tour-gifts">Kate Middleton given sleeping bag, goggles and Vegemite among bizarre royal tour gifts</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p> Prince William &#097;&#110;&#100; Kate Middleton, the Duke &#097;&#110;&#100; Duchess of Cambridge wave to the crowds in Calgary (Pic: Getty Images) </p>
<p>A sleeping bag, snow goggles, &#097; papier-m&#226;ch&#233; doll &#097;&#110;&#100; &#097; jar of Vegemite were &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; some of the unusual gifts &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101;&#110; to the Duke &#097;&#110;&#100; Duchess of Cambridge &#108;&#097;&#115;&#116; year.</p>
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<p>The bizarre items were on an official list released by St James&#8217;s Palace yesterday of items &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101;&#110; to the royal couple on their &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; foreign trip to Canada &#097;&#110;&#100; the US &#108;&#097;&#115;&#116; summer.</p>
<p>The newlyweds returned home &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; mosquito traps, cowboy hats, hockey jerseys, stuffed toys, wine coasters &#097;&#110;&#100; bread board among the hoard of gifts.</p>
<p>Kate, who celebrated &#104;&#101;&#114; 30th birthday earlier &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; week, &#115;&#101;&#101;&#109;&#101;&#100; to win in the popularity stakes, receiving &#109;&#111;&#114;&#101; gifts &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; members of the public than &#104;&#101;&#114; husband.</p>
<p>A jar of Vegemite was among the bizarre gifts &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101;&#110; to the Duke &#097;&#110;&#100; Duchess of Cambridge</p>
<p>She was also &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101;&#110; &#097; knitted prayer shawl, &#097; wicker flower basket &#097;&#110;&#100; &#097; rag doll, although William wasn&#8217;t left &#111;&#117;&#116; &#097;&#115; he bagged &#097; flying helmet &#097;&#110;&#100; &#097; tartan waistcoat.</p>
<p>The gifts weren&#8217;t all random, &#097;&#115; Kate was also presented &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#097; 302-diamond brooch and William received &#097; pair of platinum cufflinks.</p>
<p>The jewellery, listed simply &#097;&#115; &#8216;brooch&#8217; in the document, is &#097;&#099;&#116;&#117;&#097;&#108;&#108;&#121; &#097; specially-commissioned platinum piece by Hollywood jeweller Harry Winston, &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; diamonds in the shape of &#097; polar bear.</p>
<p>Prince William &#097;&#110;&#100; Kate Middleton smile &#097;&#115; they receive Team Canada hockey jerseys</p>
<p>The items together include &#097; total of 692 sparklers. They were handed &#111;&#118;&#101;&#114; by Floyd K. Roland, Premier of the Northwest Territories in Canada, &#097;&#115; the royals visited the town of Yellowknife.</p>
<p>The couple also received an iPad &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; the Governor of California &#097;&#115; listed on the 14-page rundown of gifts.</p>
<p>Clarence House spokesman insisted &#108;&#097;&#115;&#116; night &#105;&#116; &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; be &#8220;discourteous to highlight &#119;&#104;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; &#097; gift was valuable&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Aftermath of an accident:Many lives shattered in an instant</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 06:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />When &#104;&#101; heard &#116;&#104;&#101; truck, &#x201C;vrrrrooooom,&#x201D; Brian Nettles knew &#116;&#104;&#101; driver would &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; make &#116;&#104;&#101; curve. He &#116;&#111;&#108;&#100; his girlfriend so. &#097; second &#108;&#097;&#116;&#101;&#114;, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; heard &#116;&#104;&#101; crash. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; jumped in his truck &#097;&#110;&#100; headed out &#116;&#111; Bells Ferry Road, &#097; narrow two-lane in rural Harrison County. &#116;&#104;&#101; truck was flattened. It had flipped over [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/aftermath-of-an-accidentmany-lives-shattered-in-an-instant">Aftermath of an accident:Many lives shattered in an instant</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p> When &#104;&#101; heard &#116;&#104;&#101; truck, &#x201C;vrrrrooooom,&#x201D; Brian Nettles knew &#116;&#104;&#101; driver would &#110;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; make &#116;&#104;&#101; curve.</p>
<p>He &#116;&#111;&#108;&#100; his girlfriend so. &#097; second &#108;&#097;&#116;&#101;&#114;, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; heard &#116;&#104;&#101; crash. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; jumped in his truck &#097;&#110;&#100; headed out &#116;&#111; Bells Ferry Road, &#097; narrow two-lane in rural Harrison County. &#116;&#104;&#101; truck was flattened. It had flipped over &#097;&#110;&#100; over &#097;&#110;&#100; landed against &#097; telephone pole. Miraculously, &#116;&#104;&#101; driver stood in &#116;&#104;&#101; middle of &#116;&#104;&#101; road.</p>
<p>Nettles &#097;&#110;&#100; his girlfriend, Rhonda Lawson, saw &#097; car in &#116;&#104;&#101; ditch. &#116;&#104;&#101; woman &#098;&#101;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101; wheel was clearly dead. Lawson, &#097; respiratory therapist, headed &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; car. Nettles moved his truck &#116;&#111; shine his headlights on it. &#x201C;There&#x2019;s kids in &#116;&#104;&#101; car,&#x201D; Lawson called out. &#111;&#110;&#101; boy sat upright, unconscious. &#097; smaller boy lay &#097;&#099;&#114;&#111;&#115;&#115; his lap. </p>
<p> She heard &#116;&#104;&#101; larger boy snorting. &#104;&#101; was trying &#116;&#111; catch his breath. &#116;&#104;&#101; smaller boy had &#110;&#111; pulse, so she focused on &#116;&#104;&#101; &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; child. At &#102;&#105;&#114;&#115;&#116; she &#116;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104;&#116; his teeth had fallen out. But &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; she realized &#104;&#101; had &#098;&#101;&#101;&#110; wearing plastic vampire teeth, &#116;&#104;&#101; kind that glow in &#116;&#104;&#101; dark. </p>
<p>Once she removed &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109;, &#116;&#104;&#101; boy &#099;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; breathe. &#104;&#101; had &#097; faint pulse. When &#104;&#101; stopped breathing, she breathed &#102;&#111;&#114; him. Lawson &#097;&#110;&#100; Nettles managed &#116;&#111; pull him into &#116;&#104;&#101; ditch, where she continued &#116;&#111; breathe into his lungs. She &#107;&#101;&#112;&#116; telling him, &#x201C;It&#x2019;s going &#116;&#111; &#098;&#101; OK,&#x201D; until an ambulance arrived. </p>
<p>The accident, she &#097;&#110;&#100; Nettles said, was something &#110;&#111; human &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#115;&#101;&#101;, &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104; &#108;&#101;&#115;&#115; experience. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#099;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; not sleep &#102;&#111;&#114; four days. &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; &#110;&#111;&#119;, more than two months &#108;&#097;&#116;&#101;&#114;, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; think &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121; day &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; it. Sights &#097;&#110;&#100; sounds &#8212; such &#097;&#115; &#097; racing engine driving &#112;&#097;&#115;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; curve &#8212; trigger images from &#116;&#104;&#101; evening of Oct. 28.</p>
<p>Nettles was struck by &#116;&#104;&#101; upheaval &#116;&#104;&#101; accident caused. &#116;&#104;&#101; man, driving &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#119;&#105;&#099;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; 35-mph speed limit, according &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; accident report, &#116;&#111;&#108;&#100; Nettles &#097;&#110;&#100; Lawson &#104;&#101; was just trying &#116;&#111; get home &#102;&#111;&#114; dinner with his family.</p>
<p>&#x201C;&#097; wreck &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; this changes so many lives in an instant,&#x201D; Nettles wrote in an email &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; Sun Herald. &#104;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#110;&#116;&#115; people &#116;&#111; realize &#8212; on New Year&#x2019;s Eve &#097;&#110;&#100; &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;&#121; day &#8212; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; need &#116;&#111; &#115;&#108;&#111;&#119; &#100;&#111;&#119;&#110;, pay attention &#097;&#110;&#100; drive sober.</p>
<p><b>Fun evening turns tragic</b></p>
<p>The evening had &#098;&#101;&#101;&#110; enjoyable &#102;&#111;&#114; Elaine Clark, 61, her grandson Alijah Osborne &#097;&#110;&#100; his best friend, Jordan Jones, both 10. Clark doted on her grandchildren, who called her Nana. She&#x2019;d taken Alijah &#097;&#110;&#100; Jordan &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; fall festival at their school, DeLisle Elementary.</p>
<p>Alijah&#x2019;s &#098;&#105;&#103; sister, 15-year-old Alanna Necaise, talked by cellphone &#116;&#111; her Nana, who said &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; headed home. When &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; failed &#116;&#111; arrive 10 minutes &#108;&#097;&#116;&#101;&#114;, Alanna tried &#116;&#111; &#099;&#097;&#108;&#108; her Nana. &#116;&#104;&#101; phone rang &#097;&#110;&#100; rang. Alanna knew something was &#116;&#101;&#114;&#114;&#105;&#098;&#108;&#121; &#119;&#114;&#111;&#110;&#103;. She called her mother, Didi Wahl. </p>
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		<title>Are gift cards the Next Big Thing for ATMs?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 18:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br />In 2011, consumers loaded about $460 billion &#111;&#110;&#116;&#111; prepaid cards. According to research &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#116;&#104;&#101; Mercator Advisory Group this figure &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; balloon 50 percent over &#116;&#104;&#101; &#110;&#101;&#120;&#116; &#116;&#119;&#111; years, reaching $685 billion by 2014. Prepaid cards have &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#097; long &#119;&#097;&#121; &#115;&#105;&#110;&#099;&#101; Blockbuster and K-Mart introduced &#116;&#104;&#101; first non-phone cards in &#116;&#104;&#101; mid-90s. Currently when [...]<p><a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com/are-gift-cards-the-next-big-thing-for-atms">Are gift cards the Next Big Thing for ATMs?</a> is a post from: <a href="http://lovingcaregifts.com">LovingCareGifts.com: Gifts With Love &amp; Care</a></p>
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<p>In 2011, consumers loaded about $460 billion &#111;&#110;&#116;&#111; prepaid cards. According to research &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#116;&#104;&#101; Mercator Advisory Group this figure &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; balloon 50 percent over &#116;&#104;&#101; &#110;&#101;&#120;&#116; &#116;&#119;&#111; years, reaching $685 billion by 2014. Prepaid cards have &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#097; long &#119;&#097;&#121; &#115;&#105;&#110;&#099;&#101; Blockbuster and K-Mart introduced &#116;&#104;&#101; first non-phone cards in &#116;&#104;&#101; mid-90s.</p>
<p>Currently when consumers think &#111;&#102; &#109;&#097;&#107;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#097; gift card &#112;&#117;&#114;&#099;&#104;&#097;&#115;&#101;, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; imagine &#097; supermarket or drugstore spinner rack (also &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119;&#110; &#097;&#115; &#097; &#8220;card mall&#8221;). But one company intends to change &#116;&#104;&#101; picture in consumers&#8217; minds, persuading them instead to think &#111;&#102; their neighborhood ATM.</p>
<p>According to Better ATM Services president and CEO Todd Nuttall, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; couldn&#8217;t &#098;&#101; &#097; more natural combination than ATMs and prepaid cards.</p>
<p>&#8220;That &#119;&#104;&#111;&#108;&#101; [prepaid] industry &#105;&#115; hungry for &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; ways to &#103;&#101;&#116; &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; consumers&#8217; hands,&#8221; Nuttall said, &#8220;Then you turn and look &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#119;&#104;&#111;&#108;&#101; ATM world &mdash; after 40 years, they&#8217;re already in &#097;&#108;&#108; &#116;&#104;&#101; best locations in &#116;&#104;&#101; world, right? By definition an ATM &#105;&#115; located where people are walking, working, playing &#8230; And so if you &#104;&#097;&#100; &#097; vending machine business you couldn&#8217;t pick &#097; &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; place than where ATMs already are.&#8221;</p>
<p>Banking on this belief, &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; ATM Services launched its first ATM-based prepaid card program less than &#116;&#119;&#111; months &#097;&#103;&#111; in partnership with Triton Systems and &#097; trio &#111;&#102; Arizona-based credit unions. And so far, Nuttall&#8217;s theory &#115;&#101;&#101;&#109;&#115; to &#098;&#101; holding up.</p>
<p><strong>It&#8217;s &#097;&#108;&#108; in &#116;&#104;&#101; cards</strong></p>
<p>The concept behind ATM-dispensed prepaid cards &#105;&#115; quite simple, involving minimal modifications to &#097; Triton multi-cassette ATM (&#8220;two &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101; hardware components,&#8221; Nuttall said) and &#097; few slight menu and command features to &#116;&#104;&#101; software &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; runs it.</p>
<p>The tricky &#112;&#097;&#114;&#116;, Nuttall said, &#119;&#097;&#115; developing &#097; card &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; an ATM &#099;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; dispense.</p>
<p>&#8220;One &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; more difficult challenges &#119;&#097;&#115; to adapt &#116;&#104;&#101; &#119;&#104;&#111;&#108;&#101; visa world to &#097; plastic &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; work in &#097; cash machine, but &#105;&#115; still &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; &mdash; durable, usable &#101;&#110;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104; to where it works &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; point &#111;&#102; sale just like people are accustomed to,&#8221; &#104;&#101; said.</p>
<p>Better ATM Services brought together &#097;&#108;&#108; &#116;&#104;&#101; players &mdash; Visa, Triton Systems, printing companies and others &mdash; to develop &#097; workable card. &#116;&#104;&#101; end product &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097; card &#109;&#097;&#100;&#101; &#111;&#102; &#097; poly-based material similar to &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#117;&#115;&#101;&#100; for transit passes around &#116;&#104;&#101; world. It &#105;&#115; one-third &#116;&#104;&#101; thickness &#111;&#102; &#097; PVC credit card and &#105;&#115; produced on &#097; sheet sized to fit in &#097; cash cassette.</p>
<p> &#115;&#116;&#111;&#114;&#121; continues below&#8230;
<p>Each poly sheet &#105;&#115; divided &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; three snap-apart panels: &#116;&#104;&#101; first contains &#116;&#104;&#101; card &#105;&#116;&#115;&#101;&#108;&#102;; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#115;&#101;&#099;&#111;&#110;&#100; &#112;&#114;&#111;&#118;&#105;&#100;&#101;&#115; bankcard compliance information, instructions for &#117;&#115;&#101; and phone numbers to &#099;&#097;&#108;&#108; &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101; card &#098;&#101;&#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; lost or unusable; &#116;&#104;&#101; third offers available space for &#097; coupon or promotional message. &#116;&#104;&#101; pilot program offered &#097; coupon for $10 &#111;&#102;&#102; services &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#097; popular local automotive service chain.</p>
<p>&#8220;We &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; in research &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; everyone struggles when &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; pay &#097; fee for &#097; card but &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; do it &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; convenience factor,&#8221; Nuttall said. &#8220;But when you &#103;&#101;&#116; an offer or &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#111;&#102; value, Coke or &#097; free dinner or breakfast or &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;, you feel &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104; &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; about it. You feel you &#103;&#111;&#116; &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; for &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; you did. So you&#8217;re actually bringing &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; additional value to &#116;&#104;&#101; consumer where &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#103;&#101;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; card and &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; also &#103;&#101;&#116; an incentive coupon.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>How it works</strong></p>
<p>To buy &#097; gift card &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; an ATM, &#116;&#104;&#101; customer dips or swipes his or &#104;&#101;&#114; ATM/debit card &#097;&#115; usual and selects &#116;&#104;&#101; gift card &#112;&#117;&#114;&#099;&#104;&#097;&#115;&#101; option &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#116;&#104;&#101; ATM menu. &#116;&#104;&#101; customer &#105;&#115; prompted to &#099;&#104;&#111;&#111;&#115;&#101; &#097; dollar amount to load &#111;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; card (the pilot program offered choices in $25 denominations). &#116;&#104;&#101; ATM &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; picks &#116;&#104;&#101; card and delivers it to &#116;&#104;&#101; customer via &#116;&#104;&#101; cash dispenser. &#116;&#104;&#101; amount on &#116;&#104;&#101; card &#105;&#115; deducted &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#116;&#104;&#101; user&#8217;s bank account just &#097;&#115; it &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; for &#097;&#110;&#121; cash-out transaction.</p>
<p>The cards in &#116;&#104;&#101; pilot program were preactivated, but &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; ATM Services and Triton Systems are now finishing development &#111;&#102; &#097; soon-to-be-released program &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; activate &#097; card &#117;&#112;&#111;&#110; &#112;&#117;&#114;&#099;&#104;&#097;&#115;&#101; and load it with &#097;&#110;&#121; amount &#116;&#104;&#101; customer chooses.</p>
<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s &#097; big benefit for &#116;&#104;&#101; merchants and &#116;&#104;&#101; distributors &#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; deploying ATMs in &#116;&#104;&#101; gift card programs &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; now &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; don&#8217;t have to have &#097; lot &#111;&#102; capital tied up in &#097; preloaded gift card that&#8217;s loaded &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; ATM,&#8221; said James Phillips, vice president &#111;&#102; sales and marketing &#097;&#116; Triton Systems. &#8220;We really think that&#8217;s where it &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#116;&#097;&#107;&#101; &#111;&#102;&#102;.&#8221;</p>
<p>In &#116;&#104;&#101; variable-load system, &#097; scanner &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; added to &#116;&#104;&#101; ATM to identify &#116;&#104;&#101; &#112;&#097;&#114;&#116;&#105;&#099;&#117;&#108;&#097;&#114; card and &#097; dollar value &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; assigned to &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; card number. &#112;&#117;&#114;&#099;&#104;&#097;&#115;&#101; and &#117;&#115;&#101; information &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#098;&#101; tracked on &#116;&#104;&#101; &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107; end by &#097; proprietary service provided by &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; ATM Services. Phillips said &#116;&#104;&#101; variable load system &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; demoed &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; ATMIA US Conference Feb. 29 &#116;&#104;&#114;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104; March 2 in San Antonio.</p>
<p>To tap &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; gift card revenue stream, &#097; merchant or ISO &#109;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#117;&#115;&#101; ATMs outfitted with multiple cassettes &mdash; one for cash and &#097;&#116; &#108;&#101;&#097;&#115;&#116; one for gift cards. Currently, &#110;&#111;&#116; &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; US vendors offer this capacity, Phillips said. Those &#117;&#115;&#105;&#110;&#103; Triton&#8217;s newer machines, &#116;&#104;&#101; RL2000 and RL5000, can do &#097; field upgrade to add &#097; Talaris NMD 50 or NMD 100 multi-cassette dispenser. Phillips also said &#116;&#104;&#101; timing &#109;&#105;&#103;&#104;&#116; &#098;&#101; right for deployers who are already pulling older machines to comply with &#110;&#101;&#119; ADA and EMV requirements.</p>
<p><strong>How it&#8217;s worked so far</strong></p>
<p>For Credit Union West, adding gift cards to ATMs &#109;&#097;&#100;&#101; sense, said CEO Robert MacGregor. &#8220;We saw it &#097;&#115; &#097; really progressive step to giving our members &#097; &#110;&#101;&#119; product and &#097; &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; level &#111;&#102; service with basically &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101; modification to our current systems. We saw &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#097;&#115; &#097; real plus to &#098;&#101; able to offer this extra feature right &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; &#116;&#104;&#101; safety and security &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; ATM.&#8221;</p>
<p>Though &#116;&#104;&#101; final numbers aren&#8217;t &#121;&#101;&#116; available, both MacGregor and Nuttall said &#116;&#104;&#101; launch didn&#8217;t just meet their expectations &mdash; it far exceeded them. &#8220;It&#8217;s &#098;&#101;&#101;&#110; really overwhelming, &#116;&#104;&#101; response,&#8221; said MacGregor. &#8220;We&#8217;ve &#104;&#097;&#100; repeat customers &#099;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107; and &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107; for &#116;&#104;&#101; thing &#8230; it&#8217;s just &#097; &#110;&#101;&#119; type &#111;&#102; technology &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; they&#8217;re adopting &#118;&#101;&#114;&#121; quickly.</p>
<p>To encourage trial, credit unions in &#116;&#104;&#101; &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; ATM Services pilot program did &#110;&#111;&#116; charge &#097; fee for card activation, &#104;&#111;&#119;&#101;&#118;&#101;&#114; MacGregor said &#097; fee eventually &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; added.</p>
<p>&#8220;Our primary motivation &#119;&#097;&#115; just to bring &#097;&#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; service to our members &mdash; that&#8217;s kind &#111;&#102; &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; credit unions do,&#8221; MacGregor said. &#8220;But we have to keep &#116;&#104;&#101; lights on so we &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; charge &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#111;&#110;&#099;&#101; we &#103;&#101;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#114;&#111;&#117;&#103;&#104; this pilot program and &#100;&#101;&#099;&#105;&#100;&#101; &#119;&#104;&#097;&#116; we &#110;&#101;&#101;&#100; it to &#098;&#101; &#8230; but I think it&#8217;s &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; to &#098;&#101; &#097; pretty &#108;&#111;&#119; cost.&#8221;</p>
<p>He said &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; ATM-dispensed cards don&#8217;t have to &#098;&#101; activated manually and aren&#8217;t subject to fraud &#097;&#115; spinner rack cards can &#098;&#101;, fees can &#098;&#101; highly competitive with those charged by retailers.</p>
<p>MacGregor said &#104;&#101; thought &#116;&#104;&#101; &#098;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; ATM Services system offered an almost unlimited array &#111;&#102; eventual possibilities &mdash; for movie and concert ticket sales, closed-loop cards and more. &#104;&#101; said &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; while cassette space &#099;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; &#097; limitation, this &#109;&#105;&#103;&#104;&#116; &#098;&#101; addressed to some degree by working with companies &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; offered &#097; large family &#111;&#102; brands (for instance, &#116;&#104;&#101; Darden restaurant group) &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#099;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#097;&#108;&#108; accept &#116;&#104;&#101; &#115;&#097;&#109;&#101; gift card.</p>
<p><strong>Will it work for ISOs?</strong></p>
<p>Introducing &#097; &#110;&#101;&#119; service to ATM customers &#105;&#115; rarely easy, and ISOs may have it especially hard. Unlike financial institutions, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; lack &#116;&#104;&#101; communication channels &mdash; bank statements, newsletters, e-mail alerts and &#8220;employee ambassadors&#8221; &mdash; to acquaint their customers with &#116;&#104;&#101; &#110;&#101;&#119; service. Also, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#111;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#110; don&#8217;t have &#116;&#104;&#101; trust relationship with &#097; user &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#097; customer has with &#097; bank. So &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#109;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#098;&#114;&#101;&#097;&#107; down barriers to &#117;&#115;&#101; with people &#119;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; attitudes range &#102;&#114;&#111;&#109; timidity to skepticism.</p>
<p>Sam Kandah, president and CEO &#111;&#102; ATM distributor and deployer NationalLink, offered an example &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; challenge &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; faces &#097;&#110;&#121; &#110;&#101;&#119; ATM feature: &#8220;We worked with &#097; company &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; does money transfers to Mexico and &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; installed &#116;&#104;&#101; machines in Los Angeles,&#8221; &#104;&#101; said. &#8220;For &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; program to work, for three months [a store owner] &#112;&#117;&#116; &#097; person standing &#110;&#101;&#120;&#116; to &#116;&#104;&#101; machine and &#097;&#110;&#121;&#098;&#111;&#100;&#121; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; wanted to do &#097; money transfer, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#104;&#097;&#100; to walk them to &#116;&#104;&#101; machine and &#104;&#101;&#108;&#112; them do it. &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; [program] &#105;&#115; working only &#097;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; store right now. So &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; tells &#109;&#101; &#097; lot.&#8221;</p>
<p>Triton Systems senior US retail manager Alex Karetas said &#104;&#101; understands &#116;&#104;&#101; difficulty. &#8220;The employees &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; credit union really pushed and encouraged their members to go &#111;&#117;&#116; and &#117;&#115;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101; ATM to buy &#097; gift card,&#8221; &#104;&#101; said. &#8220;So it&#8217;s &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; to &#116;&#097;&#107;&#101; &#097; financial institution or &#097; retailer &#103;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#105;&#110;&#103; their people to direct customers to &#116;&#104;&#101; ATM for &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; product. &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#103;&#111;&#101;&#115; for anything you do &#097;&#116; an ATM, whether its gift card, stamps, anything we&#8217;ve looked &#097;&#116; over &#116;&#104;&#101; &#108;&#097;&#115;&#116; 15 years &#111;&#102; retail machines.&#8221;</p>
<p>Despite &#116;&#104;&#101; drawbacks, Kandah sees &#116;&#104;&#101; intrinsic value in adding &#097; &#110;&#101;&#119; fee stream to an ISO network. &#8220;It&#8217;s &#097; fantastic idea. Everyone &#105;&#115; &#108;&#111;&#111;&#107;&#105;&#110;&#103; for &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#110;&#101;&#120;&#116; big thing. &#116;&#104;&#101; gift card &#105;&#115; one &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101; most appealing things. &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#098;&#101; &#109;&#121; number one priority &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; I &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; jump on,&#8221; &#104;&#101; said.</p>
<p>However, Kandah isn&#8217;t jumping just &#121;&#101;&#116;. &#8220;You have to have &#116;&#104;&#101; ROI to make it work &#8230; on an [independent] ATM &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are more expensive than &#097;&#110;&#121;&#119;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; else &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; you have so &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; people involved &#8230; everybody &#110;&#101;&#101;&#100;&#115; &#097; cut. So it&#8217;s expensive &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; you have so &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; hands.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;The technology, &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; work,&#8221; &#104;&#101; said. &#8220;The problem &#105;&#115; who&#8217;s &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; to pay for it. &#098;&#111;&#116;&#116;&#111;&#109; line.&#8221;</p>
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